The Disconnect & Alchemy of Visionary Partnership

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Recently, I was talking to a friend, and we noticed the disconnect in our partnerships when it comes to visions and the after-the-fact reactive nature of some of our current and previous visions by our significant others.

For example, making a decision to purchase property and/or land. At the time of presenting the vision, it gets overly criticized and shut down. Even with all the heavy analyzing, we (the feminine aspect in the relationship) still proceeded because we received and could see the vision (Crown and Third Eye Chakra), we spoke it into existence (Throat Chakra), and we felt in our heart of hearts that at this time it's the right move (Heart Chakra). As we begin to put forth the effort, the creativity and transformation (Solar and Sacral Chakra) things begin to come together. The only thing left is to give birth/close the deal (Root Chakra).

It isn’t until we go through all these steps that our significant other gets motivated and wants to take some level of action. But where were you during my process? How come you couldn't see the vision and be the support system needed? What now brings you to this motivation to take action? Is it out of competition? What could have been done to prevent this? Did it need to be the significant other's idea? On the flip side, so many women have told their partner "something doesn't feel right," and it went on deaf ears. Months later, something falls through or goes wrong, which kills the whole vision. So how can we get couples on the same page with true partnerships?

One solution would be to work with the couple to help them understand the different levels of disconnect they may be experiencing in the relationship. Ultimately, this disconnect will continue to occur without a strong balance of the masculine and feminine not only within ourselves but also within the relationship.